Netflix viewers are hailing “Tell Me Who I Am” as the best true crime documentary they’ve ever seen, with many reporting multiple viewings. This powerful film explores themes of identity, loss, and painful revelations, leaving audiences deeply moved and emotionally affected. Social media comments range from “one of the most haunting documentaries I’ve ever seen” to “My heart is absolutely broke,” highlighting the film’s profound impact. The overwhelmingly positive response extends beyond casual viewers; critics are equally impressed.
“Tell Me Who I Am” boasts a 97% approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes. Critics praise its compelling narrative and the sensitive way it handles complex and sensitive themes. RogerEbert.com’s Tomris Laffly lauded director Ed Perkins for treating the story with the respect and care it deserves, while The Guardian described the documentary as “slickly pieced together like a psychological thriller,” emphasizing its engaging and emotionally resonant storytelling.
The documentary follows the real-life story of twin brothers, Alex and Marcus Lewis. When Alex loses his memory in a motorcycle accident at 18, he relies on Marcus to help him reconstruct his past. However, Marcus shields Alex from the horrific truth of their abusive childhood, creating a fabricated history to protect him. The film unfolds in three acts: Alex’s struggle to rediscover himself; Marcus’s agonizing dilemma; and a finally-revealed, emotionally charged confrontation between the brothers as the full extent of their past is unveiled.
One of the most impactful moments is the final confrontation where Marcus finally reveals the truth after decades of secrecy. The raw emotion and vulnerability of this scene has moved countless viewers to tears. In an interview with Decider, the brothers themselves described the documentary as an “incredible gift,” allowing them to achieve a level of closure beyond their expectations. Alex stated, “We’ve achieved closure beyond anything I could have imagined with each other by making this movie.”
“Tell Me Who I Am” is currently streaming on Netflix.